Never break a heart,it hurts:(

''If I can stop one heart from breaking, then I am not living in vain''.

I read this quote in one of my blogger friend's posts,but it made me recollect a true story of two girls (Riya & Aysha) not so close but were friends...This was a good few years ago...when they considered relationships an in-evitable part of daily life..but which eventually turned out to be an inevitable stress in their life. They had no issues between them until the picture got distorted by a 'misunderstanding' induced by the team of friends.It made matters worse.

Riya experienced a very hard time from her friend Aysha then. She was accused of matters she never did,she turned out to be a cause of Aysha's whole stress in life which was not true , was ignored by Aysha's friends as well.Her mind was wounded, her emotions were slaughtered & she was shattered into bits.No one heard her cry;people whom she woed to could not understand her.She cried for 6 years...but eventually there was someone who heard her sorrow & consoled her;her life partner..she never retorted or reacted back to Aysha coz she didnt want Aysha to be hurt by her...time went on ,years passed by... Both of them are settled ,but I doubt their feelings for each other now,hope they ve a good time always:)

Some chapters in life are really painful,even when years pass or time heals them,you do experience the pain of the wounded feeling u endured in the past when u try to re collect them. To err is human,to forgive is divine.That's a true feeling , but the hard part is how to forget even when you can forgive....

Time is the best healer ,people say which I feel is true.What I personally feel is that it 's quite easy to ignore one's feelings but if you have time to give a smile,hold one's hand, believe it or not ,u are saving one's heart from breaking .:))..))

Belated Merry Xmas & Advanced Happy New Year

Brooding over an year
Happiness filled the year
With joys unbound
With love all around
A lovely white X-mas!!

My little world of joy
My ultimate world of joy
My life filled with joy
With words in scarce
But Hearts in full
The reason is only one
My only lovely daughter
The first cry,first smile,first touch
Filled my heart with bliss
With joys untold I hugged my daughter..
May this hug last forever
Is the prayer in our hearts
Thank God Thank GodThank God
Is All What I can say


I wish you ALL A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010 with JOYS&PEACE & lots of GOD's Blessings!

HAPPY NEW YEAR

A Very Happy New year to all friends of blogsphere.

January always marks the beginning of everything fresh.As we know, the night is darkest just before the dawn;and the dawn of new year has come.

We ve all gone busy with our routine &I hope we ve overcome the initial confusion of writing 2008 still on the papers;)) and keeping ourselves busy with life's adventures & astonishments. Also I expect to read new &lovely posts from my blog friends......

This New Year is all too special for me & my husband as it s an year of expectations. Let it be a surprise!

I wish every one of u a Wonderful new year filled with lot of unveiled surprises..Enjoy every minute of life..

Unborn tomorrows
Dead yesterdays
Why we fret ;
If today is beautiful?

Easy Tasty & Healthy

Chitrana- a mixed vegetable rice




Ingredients

• Basmati rice-2 cups
• mixed vegetables-1 cup
• (carrots,beans,peas,cabbage)
• Oil-2 tablespoon
• Urdu dal-i teaspoon
• Onion -1
• Green chillies-2
• Garam masala-1/4 teaspoon
• Ghee-1 spoon
• Cashewnuts-a handful
• Salt-a pinch

Method of preparation

1. Bring to boil 2 cups of water in a suitable vessel(preferably pressure cooker)
2. add a pinch of turmeric powder &salt to it
3. Add the rice to it &cook on a low flame.
4. Meanwhile pour oil to a pan,add the urdu dal ,onion & green chillies one by one
5. Add the vegetables to the pan &cook it for 5 minutes
6. Once the rice is cooked add the cooked vegetables to it &mix well.
7. Add ghee to a hot pan &fry the cashewnuts
8. Add the cashewnuts along with the ghee to the vegetable rice
9. Add the garam masala
10. Serve hot with salad &pappad

ENJOY!!

and please let me know how you went on...:))

A trendy fashionable question

Hi friends ,I am back...........:)))))))Almost a 3month gap from blogging....though not deliberate:))))))

             Its so amazing to see a whole different change in culture while travelling from east to west,especially in the clothing.Though not fashionable,I am always a good observer of the trendy wears.Its so beautiful to see the lovely Irish girls treading in style with their ultra modern outfit esp in the capital city ,Dublin.Another fact is that they are wonder struck by the Indian traditional wear too.The foreigners are so thrilled to see the mirror works and the dupattas of the salwar kameez..& the mundu-shirt for men,the variety of our outfits bla bla bla...

              A recent joke I could recollect is that me & my hubby were having a photo session around our house in our traditional wear.We planned to capture some snaps & send 'em home.I was in a salwar kameez...the patiala model & my hubby in a mundu-jubba(a long sleeved shirt)...we needed  help as we couldnt capture us together.Our Irish friend was more than happy to help us.We took some snaps with her &her boyfriend.Before saying goodbye she wanted to know the names of our dress &the various traditionl Indian outfits...

            After a  class of mine she left us with a question  ''Why do women wear trousers & men wear skirt in India?" 

          Oh my God!That was something unexpected;))))))

                                  

My favorite 5 quotes

I have been tagged for the first time by bindhu.. hurray! I am asked to jot down 5 quotes of my choice from the favorite books I have read or came across...
I liked it.Thanks Bindhu

Here are a few quotes...

1) With great power comes great responsibilities.

- a memorable quote from the movie Spiderman (2002) .

2) "This is my belief: that through difficulties and problems God gives us the opportunity to grow. So when your hopes and dreams and goals are dashed, search among the wreckage, you may find a golden opportunity hidden in the ruins."

- Dr.A.P.J.Abdul Kalam, Wings of Fire

3) "Great dreams of great dreamers are always transcended."
(സഫലം ആക്കാന്‍ തക്ക വണ്ണമുള്ള ഒരു സ്വപ്നം ഉണ്ടെന്ഗിലെ ജീവിതം അര്‍ത്ഥപൂര്‍ണ്ണം ആകൂ )

-Dr.A.P.J.Abdul Kalam, Wings of Fire

4)"When you want something, the whole universe conspires in helping you achieve it"

- The Alchemist

5)A kind word can warm three winter months.

- A Japanese proverb

I m hereby tagging you friends:)))

scorpiogenius
nishanth nair
keshi
deeps
devika

My sonnet in solitude

An old anecdote from my diary.

When you were very near,
Never did I feel any fear
Loving you is my duty
for it made me very happy.
I wished you to be beside me
so I would see no one besides you
Solitude was very painful
though hard to be very cheerful;
Happiness came in a glimpse
and ordeals came in tons
When I was heartless
For life seemed mirthless;
Yonder I saw a smile
welcoming me into life